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Tips for cis men who long to try sex with other cis men – in a safe and respectful way

To begin, I&#;d like to clarify that this article is not necessarily about questioning your sexuality. Everyone should be able to explore their curiosities in a pleasurable and positive way, and it&#;s vital to understand that you can try new things without subscribing to any fixed labels. These tips are for cis men who want to try sex with other cis men, in a safe and respectful manner.

Note: ‘cisgender men’ or ‘cis men’ refers to men who were assigned male at birth, based on having a penis and other biological characteristics, and detect as men too.Cis is the opposite of trans. We speak trans men morehere, andhere’s some support and advice about navigating sex and relationshipsfor trans men and trans masculine people.

1. Be honest from the get-go that you&#;re curious

Whether you want to hook up with someone you&#;re already acquainted with (usually a gym bro, according to most porn), or you&#;ve been involved in a charged emoji swap on Grindr,&n

I’m a year-old masculine linear guy who loves exploiting the fantasies so many gay men have about straight men. When a gay guy is into me because I gaze like his straight-masculine-jock envision, it’s a power trip like no other. It’s always a specific type of bottom gay dude I seek out when I get on Grindr: a very feminine “thicc” guy with a lovely face and physical features begging for a dick. The kind of guy where from the right angles you can’t inform the difference between his big ass and a thicc chick’s big ass. And I always trails the same script: I send my dick pics, I make one of these thicc bottom boys want me, and I tell him to dispatch me a video of him twerking like a stripper for me.

But I don’t go through with the meetup. I've experimented a few times and have gotten head from a few guys, but I have no interest in dick or fucking one of these dudes. I don’t want to harm anyone or exist a lie, but I don't feel queer or bisexual at all. I actually feel like I’m “earning my heterosexuality” when I do this. It's like I’m proving to myself just how vertical I a

People are all too quick to pigeonhole bisexual and pansexual guys. Dating someone femme-presenting? You’re linear. Dating someone on the masculine side? Secretly gay and not ready to admit it. Matchmaking app a non-binary person who presents androgynously? Also gay, probably.

The thing is, bi and pan (short for “pansexual”) guys exist – I know, because I am one. These fundamental misconceptions swirl around mainstream male lover scenes and direct spaces alike. I once had a threesome with two gay German guys and afterwards one playfully referred to me as a “baby queer” – erm, no, I’m just as lgbtq+ as you mate; did you not notice when I was sucking your dick?

But let’s utter you’re a guy who’s realised that, like me, you might not be totally straight – but you’ve only ever been in heterosexual relationships. You’re keen to explore, but you’re also anxious about the whole thing. Does that sound like you? In honour of Bisexuality Visibility Week, here are some pointers to serve you navigate the terrain. Not you? Maybe still interpret on, so you can understand our sexuality a brief better.

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By Karen Blair, Ph.D., and Trent University Students Laura Orchard and Bre O'Handley
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