Gay flirting tips
10 flirting tips for socially awkward lgbtq+ guys
Because Grindr isn’t your only option&#;
Flirting comes naturally to many of us. We all include that one partner who can literally charm the pants off of every single guy he talks to. But this piece isn’t for him. He’s annoying and we hate him. (JK, we love him&#;but like&#;he’s literally the worst.) This is for the male lover and bi men who have been relying on Grindr, dare I exclaim it, a little too much. This is for the queer guys out there who don’t feel comfortable flirting with other men in real-life social settings. So here it is: 10 flirting tips for socially awkward lgbtq+ guys.
1. Turn that resting bitchface upside-down
In case you were wondering, this is also known as a smile. Smiling is crucial. It makes you so much more approachable and likable. Don’t force an awkward joker-esque smile, but make sure that you don’t stare like you’re scowling.
2. Erect&#;posture
Stand up linear. You’ll feel more confident when you do.
3. Hands at your side
Don’t cross your hands over your chest or have them in your pockets. This makes you loo
Bringing the banter: Flirting tips for gay and bi+ guys
By Emen8, updated 1 year ago in Sex and dating / Dating and relationships
You notice a cute guy across the crowded dancefloor, bar eyes, and go over to introduce yourself, but you freeze! If this sounds like you — you might need some flirting tips.
If you’re already a bit shy or anxious, flirting with a guy in a block (or anywhere for that matter) is a daunting cocktail of strangers, minute talk, loud music, and lots of witnesses. Unlike online dating, it’s also happening in real-time, with no opportunity to confirm your chats before you hit send.
If flirting doesn’t come naturally to you, you’re not alone — lots of us acquire learned our dating skills on apps. But it doesn’t have to be a minefield. With a few basic principles you&#;ll be bringing the playfulness to the bar, and walking away with that cute guys number.
Take the risk
None of us are getting any younger. If you want to talk to him — TALK TO HIM! Approaching a guy in a gay bar can be intimidating, but the absolute worst he can execute is turn you down.
Initiating
Despite loving West Side Story and hiking as a kid, it took me a long moment to realise I wasn&#;t vertical. Every coming out process is different, but for many of my sexually-fluid female friends and I, unwinding the internalised biphobia that told us there was nothing gay about wanting to kiss our school friend&#;s cheek and stroke her hair while we talked about boys was a confusing process.
Once we were ready to come out to ourselves and everyone else, many of us were already in our early twenties, far beyond the sloppy teenage years, with no experience navigating girl-on-girl sexual tension. Which left us with a lot of questions in the gay bar: what if she thinks I&#;m straight? What if she&#;s just being friendly? How do I… kiss her?
I&#;m not saying bi girls don&#;t have game, but I for one could do with some direction. Enter: the lesbian lothario, who might be able to advise us wretched souls on how to be gay. I asked four womxn who mostly get with womxn for their advice, on the basis they&#;ve been grafting a lot longer than I have.
Drybabe Bailey When flirting via text, the key is to be playful yet direct, to construct your interest known, and also to give them opportunities to do so. Flirtation is a gyrate , with each person pushing and pulling at alternative points. Here are some ways to make your texts so irresistible your significant other will have no selection but to cancel all their plans to enter and be with you. Teasing is a surefire way to present interest, especially in the early stages of internet dating. Gently poke fun at something he always does or says or a quirk he possesses. Just make sure you are teasing them in a way that is clearly joking rather than coming off unhappy or critical! This is a great way to produce your interest clear. Who sends these kinds of texts to someone they just see as a friend? It lets a guy you're crushing on know he's on your mind. And if you're already dating, it lets him know he hasn't left your mind. You can even add a word of endearment, like "good
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