Gay bars in bellingham
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I love gay bars and lgbtq+ havens—especially the ones in smaller, regional towns. There’s something about them that casts a faint shadow of what the lgbtq+ bar scene might have been like back in the afternoon. And—underscore why they even existed in the first place:
Sanctuary.
Community.
Freedom.
This past weekend, we headed out to the only gay nightclub in Bellingham, Washington. No “gay ghetto” exists here; in fact, Rumors was on the same road as all the other bars in this sleepy, Pacific Northwest college town.
Interesting thing about Bellingham: the bar was not the only place in Bellingham we saw a gay pride flag. There is no gay enclave here so the businesses flying the flag are making a very bold declaration. [Shout-out to Home Skillet (one of the best breakfast and overall dining experiences of my life who not only flew a Event flag but also displayed a #BlackLivesMatter sign and also their support for Planned Parenthood) and Aslan Brewery which flew a Peace flag on a rainbow background—good enough for me (and also served the best poutine I’ve ever had in my lif
Rumors is the only gay block in Bellingham. Its been around forever during the 90s I would sneak out of my parents residence and head over to the lock to meet friends, or sit alone and flirt with the late Eric, my second bartender crush. That was at the old Rumours, of course. Back then the bar was located in an inviting hole-in-the-wall space downtown, used the Canadian/British spelling of its name, and identified as a male lover bar. It was the epitome of a comfortable lgbtq+ space. In evidence, at an LGBT film festival in Chicago, I once saw an heartfelt low-budget coming out movie with scenes filmed in the old Rumours, featuring in the background two out of the three Bellingham guys Id slept with.
I lose those old miniature town gay bars that served as de facto LGBT community centers. One night the place would be filled with fierce flamboyant queens, the next night with woman-loving woman bikers. Everyone learned to get along. Even before the Internet killed male lover culture, I preferred bars like Rumours or its Peoria equivalent to the micro-targeted niche pubs in big cities, where you could lim
Guide Description
Listings to organizations and other things for GLBTAQ people in Bellingham and Northwest Washington. Some of the links may be outdated and going to places that are not very active, but, last I checked, they aren't broken links at least. Guide updated
Robert's photo tour of Bellingham.
Robert's main website bicycle tour photos, political commetary
Robert's Contact
Site maintained by Robert Ashworth of
See listings below
Robert's Wednesday Dinner Gathering and Newsletter
Newsletter for Dinner Group time, locations and more. Posted on the open web. Hosted on
Facebook Group
The Wednesday Dinner Gathering meets around 5 PM each Wednesday in a different restaurant. It's mostly men, but open to all. Just drop by and locate us. New people welcome. Always a different mix and lot of regulars come. A good place to see who's around town.
Weekly dinner locations announced in both the newsletter and the Facebook group.
Wednesday Dinner Gatherings are informal and there isn't a topic. Conversations just accept place up and down the table. These days usua
Bellingham LGBTQ City Guide
Bellingham is the northernmost city in Washington state and one of abundant natural beauty. Located on Bellingham Bay, it lies 21 miles south of the Combined States-Canada border between Vancouver and Seattle. In addition to being a accepted tourist destination because of its easy access to the San Juan Islands and the Northern Cascade region, it is also a city full of friendly people, diverse neighborhoods, and much to notice and do. If you’re thinking of finding your next home in Bellingham, chances are, you’ll find plenty about it to love.
A Look at Bellingham’s History
Like much of Washington state, the area that is now Bellingham was once inhabited by many Native American tribes. European explorers first arrived in the s, and subsequently American pioneers and settlers in the mids. As more and more people arrived, the area became an important center for lumber and mining, and this growth was only encouraged by its perfect location near the fluid and the arrival of the railroad. Throughout the years, Bellingham has grown i